A Kinky Asexual
Akua & Sam are joined by Lily, an asexual woman who also happens to be into Kink to discuss being an ACE in the BDSM lifestyle.
Bae(s) of The Week: QueerWOC + Tea With Queen & J (Money, Nikeeta, Queen & Janicia)
Hoe(s) of the Week: Marcus O, Monique M, Kristen w, Imari w, Olivia n, Tayo, Terrieta M, Ophelia, Angharad E, Aria M, QueerWOC and the International Women’s Day Post credit folks
Self Care Tips: Put Affirmations in your phone and schedule to send them to yourself throughout the day
Fuck It (Topic of the Day): A conversation with Lily, and asexual woman who is into BDSM. Points of discussion include: Asexuality as a spectrum as opposed to one side of a binary, Demi-sexuals, grey aces, aesthetic, romantic and sexual attraction, cuddling =/= sex, Poly relationships, setting boundaries & negotiating needs, kink as an intense physical experience outside of sexual arousal, the importance of renegotiating, when aces date sexual people, blanket consent, rape culture, behaviors that are mistaken for sexuality, spooning, “jet packing,” hard limits, oppression play, exhausting oppression PTSD, & Stanford University’s Cardinal Kink Club
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MUSIC
Opening: “Queen S%!T” SheReal
https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by
Fuck It: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR
End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co
ENGINEERING BY
Show | IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin
Akua | IG, Twitter & Snap: @heyyakuagirl
Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd
Lily | Twitter & IG: @lilyzheng308
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