Expect the Hard, Experience the Good (Part Two) :: Kris Habashy {Ep 35}

This week’s podcast is “Part Two” of the interview with my in-real-life friend, Kris Habashy. (Apparently, we like to talk. And talk. And talk.)

Although we cover a lot of topics today, I think they all boil down to one–a mom’s relationship with her kids. Having watched Kris with her own kiddos, I greatly value her thoughts and opinions.

(You can listen to “Part One” of our chat, here).

What we talked about:

• Handling boys who bicker or fight.
• Should you allow boys to pretend/play fight.
• Training self-control vs. natural angry outbursts.
• Not changing or lowering the standard because of behavior.
• Their family rules for Nerf gun use.
• Micro-management parenting and how it inhibits obedience.
• Playground play vs. playing in the backyard.
• Use as few words (and few “no’s”) as you can.
• Role playing scenarios before they happen (aka, leaving the park . . . ).
• Taking neutral moments to speak life over your kids . . .disconnected from behavior.
• Encouraging your kids even in the hard moments. . .acknowledging accomplishments.
• Advice for those times when you are out-of-sync with your kids.
• The role dads can play in helping moms relate with her kids.
• Rite of passage rituals to help boys move forward into manhood without guilt.
• Speaking and praying vision over our kids. . . even on a really awful day.

Show Notes:

• Pool noodle light sabers & balloons
• Leslie Johnson–previous podcast episodes (Ep 1 & Ep 20)
• Amy McCready – Positive Parenting Solutions

What areas do you struggle in your relationship with your child(ren)? How do you get re-connected or stay connected?