From Mommy Blogger to Duct Taped, Malnourished Children Escaping Her Home
Sep 19, 2023, 10:06 PM
In a chilling episode of the "Hidden Killers" podcast, host Tony Brueski unravels the disturbing story of prominent YouTube personality Ruby Frank and her business associate Jodi Hildebrandt. As the allegations come to light, questions about modern parenting, the perils of social media validation, and the influence of public opinion take center stage. The revelations leave listeners grappling with the blurred lines between public perception and a grim reality.
Ruby Frank, famed for her YouTube channel "Eight Passengers," and Hildebrandt found themselves embroiled in controversy when a 911 call exposed a harrowing scene: an emaciated 12-year-old boy, covered in wounds and bound with duct tape, desperately seeking refuge at a neighbor’s home. According to the call, the boy had managed to escape from Hildebrandt's residence, where both women were present.
Brueski questions, "How could mothers, especially ones so visibly present in the public eye, allegedly engage in such abusive behavior with their children?" The podcast reveals that while these alleged abuses weren’t explicitly shown on camera, there were veiled jokes hinting at abuse.
Retired FBI Special Agent Robin Dreeke provides a possible answer, suggesting a deep-seated need for external validation. “This is what happens when you fall in love with your own voice,” Dreeke states, highlighting the delicate balance between 'informers' and 'me formers' on social media. For Ruby, who seemed to prioritize showcasing her life on the platform, the balance seemed tilted towards the latter.
Dreeke goes on to dissect the probable causes for such behavior, suggesting that the convergence of personal insecurities, a strict parenting style, and the hunt for validation on public platforms can create a toxic cycle. “When you start normalizing bad behavior, it becomes easier to escalate it,” Dreeke remarks. This escalating cycle might have been exacerbated when Hildebrandt, who might share similar beliefs, became a significant part of Ruby’s life.
The role of Ruby's husband, who occasionally appeared in her videos but has not been charged with any wrongdoing, remains a murky area. Brueski expresses incredulity, questioning whether the father was genuinely oblivious to the situation or perhaps another victim of abuse himself. The podcast touches upon the possibility of trauma bonding, wherein victims form emotional attachments with their abusers.
A pivotal question remains: Why did it take so long for authorities to intervene? Despite previous petitions to Child Protective Services, the situation only came to a head with the recent dramatic escape of the boy. Dreeke alludes to the gradual desensitization of regular viewers who, accustomed to incremental increases in alarming behavior, may not recognize the situation's severity. However, an outsider or a professional might view the same behavior and recognize it as deeply troubling.
The podcast "Hidden Killers" has thrown into sharp relief the complexities surrounding digital age parenting, the allure and danger of online validation, and society's role in perpetuating or preventing such situations. As we reflect on this distressing revelation, we're left to ponder: In a world where our lives are increasingly on display, how can we discern between genuine reality and a curated facade, especially when the stakes are so high?
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Ruby Frank, famed for her YouTube channel "Eight Passengers," and Hildebrandt found themselves embroiled in controversy when a 911 call exposed a harrowing scene: an emaciated 12-year-old boy, covered in wounds and bound with duct tape, desperately seeking refuge at a neighbor’s home. According to the call, the boy had managed to escape from Hildebrandt's residence, where both women were present.
Brueski questions, "How could mothers, especially ones so visibly present in the public eye, allegedly engage in such abusive behavior with their children?" The podcast reveals that while these alleged abuses weren’t explicitly shown on camera, there were veiled jokes hinting at abuse.
Retired FBI Special Agent Robin Dreeke provides a possible answer, suggesting a deep-seated need for external validation. “This is what happens when you fall in love with your own voice,” Dreeke states, highlighting the delicate balance between 'informers' and 'me formers' on social media. For Ruby, who seemed to prioritize showcasing her life on the platform, the balance seemed tilted towards the latter.
Dreeke goes on to dissect the probable causes for such behavior, suggesting that the convergence of personal insecurities, a strict parenting style, and the hunt for validation on public platforms can create a toxic cycle. “When you start normalizing bad behavior, it becomes easier to escalate it,” Dreeke remarks. This escalating cycle might have been exacerbated when Hildebrandt, who might share similar beliefs, became a significant part of Ruby’s life.
The role of Ruby's husband, who occasionally appeared in her videos but has not been charged with any wrongdoing, remains a murky area. Brueski expresses incredulity, questioning whether the father was genuinely oblivious to the situation or perhaps another victim of abuse himself. The podcast touches upon the possibility of trauma bonding, wherein victims form emotional attachments with their abusers.
A pivotal question remains: Why did it take so long for authorities to intervene? Despite previous petitions to Child Protective Services, the situation only came to a head with the recent dramatic escape of the boy. Dreeke alludes to the gradual desensitization of regular viewers who, accustomed to incremental increases in alarming behavior, may not recognize the situation's severity. However, an outsider or a professional might view the same behavior and recognize it as deeply troubling.
The podcast "Hidden Killers" has thrown into sharp relief the complexities surrounding digital age parenting, the allure and danger of online validation, and society's role in perpetuating or preventing such situations. As we reflect on this distressing revelation, we're left to ponder: In a world where our lives are increasingly on display, how can we discern between genuine reality and a curated facade, especially when the stakes are so high?
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The latest on Catching the Long Island Serial Killer, Awaiting Admission: BTK’s Unconfessed Crimes, Chad & Lori Daybell, The Murder of Ana Walshe, Alex Murdaugh, Bryan Kohberger, Lucy Letby, Kouri Richins, Justice for Harmony Montgomery, The Murder of Stephen Smith, The Murder of Madeline Kingsbury, and much more! Listen at https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com