WOMEN DON’T WANT A LOVER, THEY WANT A PROVIDER & KODAQ GET’S EXPOSED AS A TRICK- Big Homies House Ep 200
For the 200th episode of The Big Homies House, we’re celebrating with a lineup you don’t want to miss! Jojo Alonso is back as co-host, joined by Big Bank, DJ Scream, Shaunell Kennard, and Lil Donald for a raw and unfiltered convo about love, relationships, and the chaos of modern dating. We dive into whether men really owe women anything, why love feels so hopeless in 2024, and the big debate around cheating—can you cheat and still love your partner? Plus, is sex after dates expected? This episode is packed with laughs and real talk. Don’t miss it!
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It’s a milestone moment for The Big Homies House as we hit Episode 200, and we’re doing it BIG with a star-studded guest lineup. We’ve got the return of fan-favorite co-host Jojo Alonso, alongside heavy hitters like Big Bank, DJ Scream, Shaunell Kennard, and Lil Donald. This episode is packed with raw, unfiltered conversation on love, relationships, and everything in between. You already know it’s about to get real!
We kick things off by addressing one of the most controversial topics out there: do men really owe women anything?The room gets heated as the fellas weigh in on whether women’s expectations are realistic or if we’re all just asking for too much. Spoiler alert: opinions are flying, and not everyone agrees.
Next, we tackle why love in this generation feels so hopeless. Are we all setting ourselves up for disappointment by wanting the perfect partner that doesn’t exist? The squad dives deep into how social media, unrealistic expectations, and trauma from past relationships are playing a major role in why things just don’t seem to work out anymore.
And of course, we couldn’t avoid the big one: cheating. Can men really cheat and still love their wives? Is cheating only something that happens in rich relationships, or does it affect everyone? Big Bank and Lil Donald break it down and share their takes on whether cheating is a dealbreaker or just something you tolerate in certain situations. We also get into why couples today aren’t as willing to stick it out through tough times like our grandparents did—did Big Mama really want to stay with Grandpa, or was it just a different era?
Lastly, we dive into the age-old question: is sex after dates necessary? Should there be expectations after a good night out, or is it cool to just vibe and let things flow naturally? The convo gets spicy as our guests share their honest takes on what they think should go down after date night.
With hilarious moments, real talk, and a few jaw-dropping hot takes, this is the perfect episode to celebrate 200! Whether you're single, in a relationship, or just trying to figure it all out, the gems dropped in this episode will have you thinking twice about love and dating in today’s world. Make sure to subscribe and tap in for more unfiltered conversations with the Big Homies!
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TIME STAMPS
2:09 - MEN DONT OWE YOU ANYTHING
9:04 - WOMEN WANT A MAN THAT DOES NOT EXIST
11:42 - SHOULD MEN BE GENTLE OF A WOMANS TRAUMA
12:55 - DO BLACK MEN REALLY CHEAT?
14:06 - LOVE IN THIS GENERATION IS HOPELESS
16:26 - DID BIG MAMA WANNA STAY WIT YOUR GRANPA?
18:06 - WHY DONT COUPLES IN 2024 WORK OUT?
21:31* - WHAT WOMEN WANT IN THEIR MAN?
23:19 - SHE ONLY WANT ME FOR MY MONEY, CAN I RESPECT THAT?
24:50 - WHATV ARE YOU WILLING TO OVERLOOK
25:33 CAN YOU TOLERATE CHEATING
28:05 - IS CHEATING FOR RICH MEN ONLY
29:40 - CAN YOU CHEAT AND LOVE YOUR WIFE?
32:27 - REAL MEN WANT A WOMAN. THEY DONT NEED THEM
33:30 — HOW CAN WE TAKE EACH OTHER SERIOUS
35:31 - CAN YOU FIND YOUR SOUL MATE TWICE
38:01 - WHY DO MEN STAY WHEN THEY’RE UNHAPPY
43:32 - IS SEX AFTER DATES NECESSARY
46:34 - DO YOU DATE SOMEONE DEALING WITH TRAUMA FROM PAST RELATIONSHIPS
47:25 - DO YOU NEED LOVE OR SECURITY IN A RELATIONSHIP
49:47 - IS THIS THINGS A WIFE DOES?
56:56 - WOMEN GIVE UP ON RELATIONSHIPS TOO EASY AS
1:01:45 - WOULD YOU HELP YOUR EX LIKE THIS?
1:14:39 - WHATS A GOOD FIRST DATE
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