You Have Chemistry... But Can He Actually Be in a Relationship?
Sep 16, 09:55 AM
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You can have insane chemistry with someone who is TERRIBLE at relationships. I said what I said.
We keep asking "Do we like each other?" when we should be asking "Can this person actually BE in a relationship?"
Liking each other is easy. Being in a relationship is a SKILL. And most people you have chemistry with have zero relationship skills.
In today’s episode, I'm breaking down the difference between chemistry and capacity, and the 5 questions you NEED to ask before you waste another year on a vibe that will never become a home.
IN THIS EPISODE:
Watch it before your next date. Watch it before you text him back.
We keep asking "Do we like each other?" when we should be asking "Can this person actually BE in a relationship?"
Liking each other is easy. Being in a relationship is a SKILL. And most people you have chemistry with have zero relationship skills.
In today’s episode, I'm breaking down the difference between chemistry and capacity, and the 5 questions you NEED to ask before you waste another year on a vibe that will never become a home.
IN THIS EPISODE:
- Why chemistry is lying to you
- The difference between chemistry and compatibility (this will change how you date)
- Question 1: Can he communicate when he's upset or does he punish you with silence?
- Question 2: Can he be consistent or only intense?
- Question 3: Can he handle conflict without making you the problem?
- Question 4: Do you like who YOU are when you're with him?
- Question 5: Can he actually show up as a partner, not just a boyfriend?
- Why you keep falling for chemistry and how to break the pattern
Watch it before your next date. Watch it before you text him back.
