Dealing with Toxic People with Gary Thomas
This week on Cultivating the Lovely, MacKenzie has a chat with author and speaker Gary Thomas about his new book When to Walk Away: Finding Freedom from Toxic People. Gary and his wife of 35 years have three children and live outside of Houston, TX. He has a heart for marriage, family and the church, and that love for people shines through this conversation with MacKenzie.
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- How Gary realized this book needed to be written through his own encounter with a toxic person
- Gary shares his heart for marriage while being real about abuse
- The danger of telling others to stay in relationship with toxic people
- Biblical examples of how to deal with toxic relationships
- Challenges from within the church to victims of abuse
- Gary identifies some warning signs that you may be in relationship with a toxic person
- If someone is stopping you from fulfilling God’s mission for you
- If someone is destroying your spirit
- If someone is controlling you
- If someone is gaslighting you or making you feel crazy
- The crucial importance of having strong Christian friends who can help you deal with toxic relationships
- Gary describes what “gaslighting” is and how to tell if it is happening to you
- The difference between a truly toxic person and someone who is acting in a toxic way but can change
- Why it is crucial to get a counselor to help you with a potentially violent person
- Some advice for singles
- Gary’s typical daily routine
Gary: diffusing essential oils in his office at work
Resources Mentioned- Books: Podcasts:Brainfood/The Knowledge Project
Movies: Find Gary-You can find Gary at garythomas.com. You can also follow him on Facebook, Pinterest, and Twitter.
Find MacKenzie-You can find MacKenzie Koppa on Instagram, Facebook, and the CTL Facebook Group, of course! You can also listen to her family-friendly podcast The Same Page!
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